Who’s on your networking bucket list?
About three years ago, I decided to get into social networking. No, not Facebook or Twitter. I mean real, live, old-school, networking. I’d like to pretend it was an active decision, but we all know the truth (more on this later). Regardless, I set up a meeting with an old friend, Brian Kelley (web | twitter) — who is a community leader in the Sql Server world (as well as security, youth ministry, and a host of other things) — to get his take on how to get started. He recommended looking into Never Eat Alone by Keith Ferrazzi. It’s a great book and a quick read, I’d definitely recommend it. From there, I went on to have a -lot- more lunches, go to more conferences (and host a few), extend a few greetings to people that I’d never have approached in the past.
After while, I realized I needed a little more direction and to set a few goals. I began planning how I would attend a conference and use the resources at-hand. After meeting a few people that I thought I’d never meet in real-life – sometimes completely by accident – I decided to make a list of people that I’d love to have lunch with or otherwise just sit and chat: the Networking Bucket List.
What is a networking bucket list, and why should you care? Anyone who has attended a conference, met with a customer, or even gone to the gym has done some kind of networking. You can’t even go to the store without making contact with at least one person (unless you’re a huge fan of self-checkouts and they -always- work for you). Why not set some goals regarding networking? It’s not hard, and you’d be surprised how something this simple can be incredibly fulfilling and rewarding.
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Bobby, just catching up on reading and saw this. I think its good to have a list of people you want to meet. Do you have a plan to drive to it, or just cross them off as your paths cross? Either is ok, just curious, because I don’t have a list like that!
Andy