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Who’s on your networking bucket list?

About three years ago, I decided to get into social networking.  No, not Facebook or Twitter.  I mean real, live, old-school, networking.  I’d like to pretend it was an active decision, but we all know the truth (more on this later).  Regardless, I set up a meeting with an old friend, Brian Kelley (web | twitter) — who is a community leader in the Sql Server world (as well as security, youth ministry, and a host of other things) — to get his take on how to get started.  He recommended looking into Never Eat Alone by Keith Ferrazzi.  It’s a great book and a quick read, I’d definitely recommend it.  From there, I went on to have a -lot- more lunches, go to more conferences (and host a few), extend a few greetings to people that I’d never have approached in the past.

After while, I realized I needed a little more direction and to set a few goals.  I began planning how I would attend a conference and use the resources at-hand.  After meeting a few people that I thought I’d never meet in real-life – sometimes completely by accident – I decided to make a list of people that I’d love to have lunch with or otherwise just sit and chat: the Networking Bucket List.

What is a networking bucket list, and why should you care?  Anyone who has attended a conference, met with a customer, or even gone to the gym has done some kind of networking.  You can’t even go to the store without making contact with at least one person (unless you’re a huge fan of self-checkouts and they -always- work for you).  Why not set some goals regarding networking?  It’s not hard, and you’d be surprised how something this simple can be incredibly fulfilling and rewarding.

Here’s just a few people on my list that I’ve met:
Scott Hanselman (twitter | blog)
Andy Leonard (twitter | blog)
Andy Warren (twitter | blog)
Brian Moran (twitter | web)
Margaret Weis (twitter | web)
James Callis (twitter | web)
George Takei (twitter | web)

And here are a few people still on my list:
Buck Woody (twitter | blog)
Steve Jones (twitter | blog)
Brent Ozar (twitter | blog)
Sebastian Marshall (twitter | blog)
Steve Kamb (twitter | blog)
Joel Spolsky (twitter | blog)
Oren Eini (twitter | blog)
Keith Ferazzi (twitter | blog)
Seth Godin (twitter | blog)
Jeff Atwood (twitter | blog)
Rick Strahl (twitter| blog)
Kelly Sommers (twitter | blog)
.. and boatloads of others!

Are you on the list and wondering why?  Drop me a line, let’s get together!  Don’t see you name up there?  Drop me a line anyway, I love hearing from new people!

Networking is definitely an art.  Luckily, you don’t have to be Picasso.  It’s a skill you can build and develop, and unlike snow skiing, you don’t have to worry about a trip to the emergency room..

 

 

2 Comments to “Who’s on your networking bucket list?”

  • Robert Mitchell January 6, 2012 at 2:41 pm

    I found your site on technorati and read a few of your other posts. Keep up the good work. I just added your RSS feed to my Google News Reader. Looking forward to reading more from you down the road!

  • Andy Warren February 16, 2012 at 9:43 am

    Bobby, just catching up on reading and saw this. I think its good to have a list of people you want to meet. Do you have a plan to drive to it, or just cross them off as your paths cross? Either is ok, just curious, because I don’t have a list like that!

    Andy

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